Compassion and Commitment

Hero: Cindy
By: Nance Kriscenski, Westfield, CT

My childhood friend, Cindy, was so happy to be married to her husband, Mike.  They were doing well, with two young boys.  Cindy was a homemaker; Mike worked in Boston and New York.  Mike was killed in the terrorist attack at the World Trade Center on 9/11/01.  What Cindy faced in the months and years that followed was unspeakably horrible, as it has been for all the victims' families. 

Through our close relationship, I have experienced this world-shattering event on a more personal level, and my love for my friend has grown as I watch her reach out to others, not with hatred and vindictiveness, but with compassion and commitment.

Senator Ted Kennedy held a meeting for the victims' families in Massachusetts, and Cindy stood to voice her concerns about issues such as continued health insurance coverage and streamlining assistance procedures.  Senator Kennedy appreciated her voice.  The two became close, and his support and friendship gave her great strength. 

In the years since 2001, Cindy has mustered the strength to not only create a good life for her and her boys, but to take a leadership role in causes that benefit others.  She has been a vocal advocate for the survivors, serving on the Mass 911 Fund.  She created the McGinty Family Fun Day in Foxboro, MA, raising money for college scholarships at a community event that brings families together.  She serves on the board of the Mass Military Heroes Fund, a non-profit offering programs and support for military families.  She was active in the creation of the 9/11 National Day of Service.  She plays an active role in the lives of her sons and contributes her energy to numerous other causes.

Despite a grief that would cripple most people, Cindy didn't fall victim to her personal tragedy.  She demonstrates compassionate understanding of the many challenges people face, and is committed to working to improve the lives of others.  She applies her intelligence and strong work ethic to create positive solutions for others who share the challenge of raising a family, in honor of her beloved husband.  She is a living example of the sentiment expressed by President Kennedy that, "One person can make a difference and everyone should try."